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LIFE LESSON- WHEN AND HOW TO APOLOGIZE

One key to getting along well with people is knowing when to say you're sorry. Sometimes little comments or actions can hurt or offend others. Heavy workloads and stress may keep us from seeing how our actions make others feel. The little things can add up. It doesn't take long for someone to hold a grudge and for grudges to grow into conflicts. In most cases, if someone is offended by something you do or say, it's much better to apologize right away. That solves the small problem and keeps it from getting bigger.


It's hard to apologize. Many of us are ashamed or have too much pride. Sometimes we just don't know how to do it. Here are some tips that may make it easier to say you're sorry.


Take responsibility. The first step in apologizing is to admit to yourself that you have offended someone. You may know this right away, or the other person's reaction may let you know you have done something hurtful. But you must admit you have done wrong and accept responsibility for your actions.


Explain. It's important to let the person you hurt know that you didn't mean to do harm. At the same time, you must show that you take your mistake seriously. Recognize that your actions caused a problem for the other person.


Show your regret. The other person needs to see that you have suffered, too. Come right out and say you are sorry or ashamed. I felt bad the minute I told your secret. I'm ashamed of myself.


Repair the damage. To be complete, an apology must correct the injury. If you damaged someone's property, offer to fix it. If the damage isn't so obvious, ask What can I do to make it up to you? There may be nothing concrete you can do, but the offer must be sincere. I'll try to keep my mouth shut in the future. Meantime, let me buy you a cup of coffee. Another way to repair the damage is to send a note or a small gift.


Use good timing. Apologize right away for little things. For example, if you bump into someone, say you're sorry right away. Don't wait until the next day to apologize. However, if you have done something more serious, like insult a friend, your apology should be more thoughtful. A quick apology might seem phony. Take the time to sit down, look the person in the eye, and apologize honestly.


It's not about who "won" or who "lost." It's about keeping a strong friendship.

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Timbaland feat. Daughtry - Long Way Down

Long Way Down Lyrics

Traveled all around the world to be with you

You never know where the open road will lead you to

I crawl before I walk, still got nowhere fast

The other side still has the greener grass

Oh, you win some and you loose some yeah

Oh, and things look so much smarter from up there

I hear it's such a long way down

And the climb back up ain't as easy as it sounds

I hear it's such a long way down

And the climb back up is just something I can do without

Something I can do without

I walked until I didn't have no energy

I bought until I didn't have no bite left in me

I died so that I didn't have to live in the past

But the other side still had the greener grass

Oh, you win some and you loose some yeah

Oh, and things look so much smarter from up there

I hear it's such a long way down

And the climb back up ain't as easy as it sounds

I hear it's such a long way down

And the climb back up is just something I can do without

Something I can do without

Put your hands up yeah, Put your hands up yeah

Put your hands up yeah, Something I can do without

I hear it's such a long way down

And the climb back up ain't as easy as it sounds

I hear it's such a long way down

And the climb back up is just something I can do without

Just something I can do without, oh yeah

Something I can do without, Something I can do without

Something I can do without, Something I can do without

Something I can do without, Something I can do without

Something I can do without, out, out, out, that's it

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Mario Poses For PETA Advertisement "Ink Not Mink"

The advertisement of Mario on PETA is expected to raise the concern of people about indiscriminate animal slaughter. Apart from Mario, several other celebrities have posed for advertisements of PETA so that they can save the life of animals and give them an independent life. PETA has adopted several steps to support wildlife and they consider that the appeals made by celebrities would benefit the innocent animals.

Flavor of Love reality star Hoopz recently did a photo shoot with Chad Ochocinco

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