Showing posts with label fitness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fitness. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 26, 2024

The New Secret Hot Spot For Gay Dates & New Friends

As someone who has worked out for years, let me spill the beans about a juicy secret: THE GYM IS THE NEW HANGOUT FOR HOTTIES LOOKING FOR LOVE AND LUST. Now, you might think, "Oh, it's always been like that," and you'd be right... but let me tell you, things have ramped up in a fabulous way!



Back in the day, if you wanted to make a gym buddy, you had to go old-school and ask a stranger to spot you while you pumped iron. It was like a mating dance, but with dumbbells instead of feathers. And if the chemistry was right (and I don't just mean the chemical stench of sweat), you might end up swapping numbers and planning post-workout escapades.

But now? Honey, it's a whole new ball game. People are signing into apps like Jack'd, Grindr, or others, while they're hitting the treadmill or doing squats. Some are so dedicated they message from the parking lot before even setting foot inside! Can you imagine the dedication? It's like they're lifting more than just weights.



And let me tell you, meeting a guy at the gym is like hitting the jackpot. You know he's committed to his body, which means he's dedicated to self-improvement in all areas, if you catch my drift.



Forget about meeting dudes at church or work—those are so last season. The gym is where it's at, my friends. 

Here are six fabulous reasons why working out will make your life sparkle:

1. You're in prime position to meet a swole mate.
2. Those endorphins make everyone look cuter.
3. Gym dates are an excuse to wear your tightest leggings or tank tops.
4. You can spot a potential date while spotting your bench press.
5. Working out together is a bonding experience like no other.
6. After a good workout, everything feels better—even flirting!



So, my fellow gym-goers, get ready to flex not just your muscles but your dating game. The gym isn't just for gains anymore—it's the hottest spot in town for love connections and sweaty rendezvous.


 Yes, feed your muscle love while feeding your need for physical fitness.

And if you didn't know, now you know you know, NubianNewYorkers 😊💪💪💓

 








Monday, November 13, 2023

Subject: Embrace the Power of the Gym - Your Journey to a Better You!


 Dear NubianNewYorkers,

I hope this Blog post finds you in good health and high spirits! I wanted to take a moment to share some incredible insights about the benefits of going to the gym that might just motivate you to take that first step towards a healthier, happier you.

 

 

 I understand that going to the gym can feel daunting, and it's completely normal to have reservations. We all have our reasons for putting it off - whether it's feeling self-conscious, lacking motivation, or simply fearing the discomfort of starting something new. 

But let me assure you, my dear friend, that you are not alone in these thoughts and feelings. Many people have stood exactly where you are now, and with the right mindset, they have overcome their fears and reaped the countless rewards that await.



Now, let's talk about those benefits! Going to the gym is like opening a treasure chest filled with amazing gifts for your body, mind, and soul. First and foremost, regular exercise helps to strengthen your muscles, making you feel stronger, more capable, and ready to take on any challenge that comes your way.

But it doesn't stop there! Going to the gym also improves your cardiovascular health, which means a healthier heart and improved endurance. Imagine having the energy to do all the things you love, without feeling tired or out of breath.

                         Now, let's delve into the magical world of endorphins. When you exercise, your brain releases these incredible chemicals that are often referred to as the "feel-good" hormones. Endorphins can boost your mood, reduce stress and anxiety, and leave you with a sense of happiness and contentment that lasts long after your workout session.


And guess what? Regular exercise can also improve your sleep quality, helping you wake up feeling refreshed and ready to conquer the day. It's like giving yourself the gift of a good night's sleep every time you hit the gym!


Not only does exercise benefit your physical and mental well-being, but it also provides an opportunity for personal growth and self-discovery. By challenging yourself in the gym, you'll gradually build confidence and a sense of accomplishment that will extend far beyond the weightlifting or treadmill. You'll discover the incredible things your body is capable of and ignite a newfound respect and love for yourself.


I understand that change can be scary, but trust me when I say that the short-term discomfort of going to the gym is minuscule compared to the long-term benefits that await you. I believe in you, and I know that you have the strength within you to overcome any fear or hesitation.


Take that first step, my friend, and let the gym become your sanctuary, a place where you can not only transform your body but also nurture your mind and soul. Embrace the journey, and remember that every small step forward is a victory in itself.



If you ever need someone to cheer you on or provide guidance along the way, know that I am here for you. Together, we can conquer any obstacle and create a healthier, happier, and more vibrant version of you.

With unwavering love and support,

E-MAN






Sunday, July 20, 2014

Butt & Abs Workout For Men

Any Gay man who doesnt exercise needs to have his head examined. Exercising allows you to shape your body the way you want and gives you better sex, a longer life, more stamina in bed and allows you to look younger longer.  Dont just lust after guys with great bodies, BE ONE OF THEM!


Monday, June 11, 2012

Exercise = Self Love

     The best way to show yourself you love YOU, is to workout and eat right.  The best way to make sure you live a long & happy life is to make fitness a part of your life. Believe it or not, those push-ups you do in your twenties will get you to your 80's if you keep it them up.

     Do you want more sex? More energy? Better skin? Do you want to look better than people half your age? THEN YOU NEED TO EXERCISE!! The benefits of exercise are limitless!

     Doesnt matter how small you start, AS LONG AS YOU START.. and keep it going!  There is an incredible show called EXTREME MAKEOVER: WEIGHTLOSS EDITION on ABC (check your local listings) that shows us each week the miracle of exercise and of perserverence... Here is a tiny clip.. I hope it motivates you like it did me!





 Catch entire episodes at:
http://www.hulu.com/extreme-makeover-weight-loss-edition




Monday, June 14, 2010

FITNESS- Ass Exercises for Men





While many men focus on building a big wide chest and shoulders shoulders and huge biceps many will neglect their lower body and especially butt exercises for men.

So what do you need to do to achieve the male model type butt? Well firstly you must adjust your workouts to focus on that behind to build the muscles you need to make it have the right firm shape.
 

You also need to have the right diet to make sure the fat that often conceals great muscles bum is burned away too.

This lens will focus on the exercises you should employ first however.

5 Ass Exercises for Men 

1. Squats




I love squats as you may be able to tell. They are great for your bum of course but also for flexibility, strength and if you do it with a barbell over the shoulder for the upper body too.
An all body workout like a squat also engages more muscle groups which releases more growth hormones which are essential for building muscle and also for losing weight if you are eating the right diet.

2. Gluteus Kickback
 

 


This is where you get on your hands and knees with your head slightly raised and you lift each leg in turn backward raising your foot above your head until your upper leg is horizontal with your torso. The trick is to really SQUEEZE with your buttock that is attached to the raised let on the way up and down. Do it slow, the idea is to hold it there for a moment before coming down so you get a good quality kickback not a fast elastic snap which does nothing for the muscles.

3. Step Ups
Simple concept, simple exercise you can do anywhere you have a slightly raised platform. Step up onto this platform using just your leg and bum muscle to propel your body upwards to stand on the step.
Easy if the step is low but when you raise that steps height to above the knee and later up as high as you can reach with your foot the more weight your leg and butt need to lift. Good for your core muscles too to keep yourself from flopping all over the place as you step.

4. Standing Butt Squeeze Exercise



This is the easiest of all of them but is great to do if you work in an office or somewhere like it. Take a break and stand up straight with your feet forward and really SQUEEZE those buttock cheeks hard for about 2 seconds then release. To this again and again for a minute or so when you need and without any paraphernalia you can exercise the bum and keep firming it up.

5. Leg Abduction Exercise



This is done by standing with your feet about hip width apart and feet facing forward. Raise one leg outwards to the side while still facing your foot forward. Raise it as high as you can while balancing, your torso may lean the other way a bit which is ok just do not make it too much. Hold it for a few seconds and squeeze your buttocks as you do this (see a theme?)). Repeat several times times for each.
 
 
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Thursday, February 04, 2010

How to get that SPRING body in 8 weeks


No matter what time of the year it is, it seems that the spring bathing suit panic, er, season, is just around the corner. As soon as we open that last Christmas present, it's time to make that New Year's Resolution to lose weight, trim up, get into shape, get healthier, or what have you. The thing is, long term weight loss plans rarely work. Why? Because we wait until the last minute to get into shape, fail, and then get discouraged. However, if you find that the season of swimsuits and sleeveless shirts is fast closing in upon you, you can actually turn the pressure into motivation. Give yourself eight weeks, and you'll be able to see results that will end with fewer tears in the dressing room come spring.  Check it out...

During the first two weeks, just work on revving up your routine again. If you are already maintaining a fitness or weight loss program, that's great. Just turn it up a notch with higher intensity workouts, longer sessions, more frequent trips to the gym, or whatever will force you to work a little harder during the home stretch. Chances are, however, that if you are reading this, your aren't already working out. If that's the case, start slowly. If you try to do too much, you'll give up quickly out of frustration. No one expects you to go from couch potato today to marathon runner tomorrow. Try taking a brisk, twenty minute walk after dinner for the first few days, and then try adding another brisk walk in the morning. At the same time, take a look at your diet and just begin taking note of things. When do you eat the most? What is your most vulnerable overeating time? Do you notice any patterns or habits that could be single handedly sabotaging your weight loss plan? Write it all down. Just practicing this habit every single day will cause you to make wiser dietary choices by simply making you more aware of what you are putting into your body.

 
During weeks three and four, it's time to step it up. Exercise every day for at least 45 minutes at as high an intensity as you are comfortable with (of course, talk to your doctor first if you have any pre-existing health problems or if it has been quite a while since you last exercised). Also, add a strength training routine that works all of the major muscle groups of the body. If you have a gym membership, ask a staff member to help you figure out what you can handle. If you are looking to do more than just tone (in other words, if you want to add muscle), be sure to add weight to your machines as you are able to in the following weeks. Otherwise, you can lift at close to the same weight level for the following weeks in order to simply tone and define your muscles. Either way, you will be quickly sculpting your body, and this is the quickest way to see results in your fitness program. Keep up with your strength training routine religiously, but do remember to give yourself 24 hours to recuperate between each session.



During the weeks five and six, start concentrating on really toning those body parts that matter most during hot weather months. We're talking about the chest, arms and abs for men, and the arms, abs, and legs for women. Take an honest look at yourself in the mirror and focus in on what body part needs the most work, while also taking into consideration how much that body part will actually be shown during the spring and summer. In other words, if your stomach seems to need the most help, but you have no desire to show it even if it were in good condition, move on to the next part. Many women often find that their arms are what they need to work on first, considering that it is difficult to conceal them when the weather is hot. Men often find themselves working on their chests, as swimming and other outdoor activities traditionally require them to expose that area. Whatever body part you decide is crucial, begin working on toning and sculpting it separately. If your arms need the most work, really pump them during your walks and do extra upper body exercises during your strength training. Give that part special attention for the next few weeks.



During weeks seven and eight, start increasing your intake of water even more (something you should have been doing all along), decrease your sodium intake, decrease your sugar intake, add more sculpting exercises to improve on your "crucial" areas (consider adding extras crunches, squats, and push-ups), and really focus in on toning. You won't be able to lose a substantial amount of weight in those last two weeks (probably not more than 2-4 lbs) so don't kill yourself in an attempt to do so. Work on improving the appearance of your body by shaping it and reducing flab. Also, keep in mind that muscle weighs more than fat, so you may not have lost as much weight as you would have liked, but you have converted fat into muscle, which is perfectly fine. In turn, muscle burns fat faster, so the more muscle you build, the better able you are to lose weight and keep it off.
 
At the end of eight weeks, you will notice a leaner, more toned body, and will hopefully (and most likely) have lost a few pounds of excess flab if you have watched your diet as well. Don't stop there, though. You can decrease the intensity of your workouts, but keep up an exercise and strength training routine for good. That way, come next spring, you won't have to work so hard to get ready. You'll already be there.

Saturday, January 12, 2008

STAYING MOTIVATED TO EXERCISE!!


You know you should exercise, but some days it's tough to get moving: not enough time, too tired, no energy. Counteract those excuses by discovering what motivates you, and use these strategies to develop and maintain an active lifestyle.


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Step One
Determine an attainable goal such as exercising twice on weekdays, once on weekends. Creating realistic goals will set you up for success. If your goal becomes too easy, you can always design a new one.


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Step Two
Create rewards for achieving your goal. The reward can be a massage, a new workout outfit, a new CD, a session with a personal trainer, or a new piece of sports equipment - whatever you really want.


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Step Three
Partner with a friend, co-worker or loved one - someone who will support you and your goals without sabotaging them.


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Step Four
Subscribe to a fitness magazine or online fitness newsletter. New tips and exercises can be inspirational and alleviate boredom.


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Step Five
Create a competition with co-workers or friends. For example, the team whose members exercise for 30 minutes, three times each week for three months wins a prize. You decide what the prize is.


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Step Six
Change into your workout clothes. Sometimes, it's just a matter of getting dressed that causes the biggest barrier.


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Step Seven
Erase the concept that if you can't do at least 30 minutes you're wasting your time. Exercise burns calories, increases energy, and improves your health - even in small doses.


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Step Eight
Try a new sport or class. Adding variety, group support and competition can increase your likelihood of exercising.


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Step Nine
Make a commitment to your dog to go for a long walk at least twice each week.


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Step Ten
Look for ways to incorporate activity into your day, even if you can't do your normal exercise routine. Take the stairs instead of the elevator, go bowling instead of to the movies, or use a push mower instead of a power mower.


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Step Eleven
Sign up for a race and send in the entry fee. Whatever your activity - running, biking, walking, swimming - there are hundreds of races offered all over the world. Pick a place you've always wanted to visit.


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Step Twelve
Join a gym. For some, paying for a membership increases the likelihood of compliance. It also eliminates the bad-weather excuse.


Tips & Warnings
Exercise in the morning. Research shows that people who make exercise a priority first thing in their day are more likely to stick with it.


Every person goes through periods of time when it's incredibly challenging to maintain an exercise program. Acknowledge it when it happens, recognize that it's just a brief period of time, and restart your program as soon as possible.


Choose things that motivate you - not what others want.


Remind yourself of the many health benefits of an exercise program.