Hey everyone,
I’ve been looking into places where we can live as Black gay men without all the stress we face here. Africa has some great options, but we need to be smart about it. Here’s what I found:
Ghana – Since 2019, Ghana has been welcoming Black folks from the U.S. through the Year of Return program. It’s full of culture and history, and you’ll see Black people everywhere, which feels amazing. But keep in mind: being gay isn’t fully accepted there. There’s a growing LGBTQ+ community in Accra, but we’d need to be careful and connect with locals who know the scene.
South Africa – This is the best option for living openly. Cape Town has beaches, art, and a strong LGBTQ+ community. Same-sex marriage is legal here, so you can be yourself without hiding. Johannesburg is busier, with more creative energy. The drag scene and social life are thriving—definitely a place where we can live freely.
Kenya – Nairobi has modern city life, nature, and a cool vibe. But like Ghana, being gay is still illegal, so the queer community is more underground. If you go, link up with local LGBTQ+ groups to stay safe and connected.
Liberia – This country has deep ties to Black history, but LGBTQ+ rights aren’t strong yet. It’s more for those who want a connection to heritage but are okay keeping things private.
Benin & Togo – Beautiful places with rich culture, but not safe for living openly as LGBTQ+. Better for short visits than long-term stays.
If you’re serious about leaving, South Africa is the safest choice. Ghana and Kenya are great but require caution. Let me know if you want more details—I’m happy to keep researching.
Stay safe and proud,
E-man
