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Monday, October 13, 2025

NubianNewYorkers - From Bored to Busy: Smart Things to Do While You Wait in Line

 

If you're anything like me, you’ve spent at least 20% of your life standing in a line, sitting in a waiting room, or staring down the blinking cursor of doom at the DMV. Waiting is the universe’s way of reminding us that patience is overrated.


But fear not, my fellow time-hostages! I’ve discovered that waiting doesn’t have to feel like Purgatory with fluorescent lights. All you need is your trusty phone and a little creativity to turn that agonizing dead time into minutes that actually count for something. Here are 6 ways , that have worked for me, to make waiting feel almost productive—or at least less like punishment.

1. De-clutter Your Phone

Think of this as cleaning your digital junk drawer. Delete those 47 photos of the same sunset, the blurry cat pictures, and that mysterious screenshot from 2022 you swore you’d remember why you took. Your phone will breathe easier—and so will you.

2. Learn Something New

Open YouTube and type in anything that’s crossed your mind lately, like “how to fold a fitted sheet” or “why my plant hates me.” Five minutes later, you’ll be an expert—or at least as close to one as the Internet allows.


3. Make a Smart Shopping List

You know you’re going to forget something at the store anyway. Use the time to start a list in your favorite app. Whether it’s groceries, gadgets, or dream vacation gear, your “Add to Cart” thumb will get a workout. Bonus: less impulse shopping later. (Probably.)

4. Spread Some Positivity

Leave kind comments on friends’ posts. Tell that cousin their new haircut really does make them look like a movie star (even if the movie is a low-budget one). It’s good karma, good manners, and it fools social media algorithms into thinking you’re thriving.


5. Start Journaling

If a paper diary feels too 8th grade, open your notes app and unload. Tell it your thoughts, your frustrations, and the fact that you’re currently in line behind someone paying for gum with a check. It’s therapy without the co-pay.

6. Tidy Up Your Inbox

This is the adult version of cleaning your locker. Delete the junk, answer the messages, and finally unsubscribe from that newsletter you never read but feel mysteriously loyal to.

 

Waiting is inevitable. But wasting time while waiting? Now that’s optional. Next time you find yourself on pause, grab your phone and turn those minutes into small victories. Let us know if you like this post or have anything to add.

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Friday, October 03, 2025

NubianNewYorkers - October 2025 Chocolate Man-Candy - Trick or Treat?

 OCTOBER

October 31st brings Halloween, a night where everyone can unleash their alter ego. Sexy costumes, playful role-playing, and mysterious personas let people tap into their seductive side. Whether you're going as a sultry vampire, seductive witch, or a classic cat, Halloween is the ultimate night for fantasy.

 
The crisp air, falling leaves, and cozy vibes of October set the perfect stage for intimate moments. Think candlelit dinners, warm blankets, and hot cider – it’s the season for romance to bloom and for getting closer with that special someone.
 




 
The full moon in October (called the Hunter's Moon) is said to be a time of heightened energy, deep emotions, and even sensuality. Full moons are often linked with mystery, desire, and the shedding of old energies, making it a great time for new romantic connections or reigniting passion in your current relationship.







 

Love it or hate it, pumpkin spice is a key scent of October and has a long history of being linked to comfort and warmth. Scent is a huge part of attraction, and the cozy, rich aroma of cinnamon and nutmeg can be undeniably seductive, triggering those "feel-good" vibes.

 




 
October's harvest season brings an abundance of aphrodisiac-rich foods like apples, figs, pomegranates, and dark chocolate. These foods are often linked to boosting libido, making the month perfect for romantic picnics or decadent dinners designed to turn up the heat.












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