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Friday, May 23, 2025

NubianNewYorkers - How to Tell if a Down-Low (DL) Dude is Into You — The Lowdown, No Drama..

Alright, my friend, if you’re wondering whether that DL guy’s got a little crush on you but he’s playing it cool, here’s the secret decoder ring for his moves. It’s all in the way he acts, talks, and even sneaks glances your way. Let’s break it down like we’re chatting over a cold one.

Body Language: The Silent Love Language

    Eye Contact:
    Does he look you dead in the eye when you’re talking? Or maybe he’s sneaking peeks when you’re not looking? That’s him trying to say, “Hey, I’m interested,” without actually saying it.

    Copycat Moves (Mirroring):
    If you cross your legs and he does the same, or you lean in and suddenly he’s leaning in too, that’s no accident. It means he’s tuned into your vibe.

    Getting Closer:
    Is he leaning toward you, opening up his body like he’s saying, “I’m all ears”? That’s a big hint he wants to be closer — physically or emotionally.

How He Acts Around You: The Clues You Can’t Miss

    Flattery Game Strong:
    If he’s tossing compliments your way — “Nice shirt,” or “You’re funny” — he’s trying to butter you up. And hey, who doesn’t like a little praise?

    Memory Master:
    Does he remember your favorite coffee order or that random thing you said last week? That’s him paying attention, which means you’re on his mind.

    Showing Off (In a Good Way):
    Maybe he talks about his skills, hobbies, or that time he nailed something cool. He’s trying to impress you, plain and simple.

    Playful Teasing:
    If he’s poking fun at you (in a nice way) or laughing at your jokes — even the lame ones — that’s flirting 101.

    Jealous Much?
    If he looks a little bothered when you chat with other guys, that’s a red flag (or maybe a green light) that he cares more than he’s letting on.

    Sneaky Touches:
    A light tap on your arm, a hand that lingers — these are his way of saying, “I want to be close.”

    Making You Laugh:
    If he’s cracking jokes, being silly, or just making the whole vibe more fun when you’re around, he’s definitely into you.

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