Tuesday, August 01, 2023

LIFE LESSON- TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE

 


- The speaker used to be scared of horror movies as a child and would hide from the screen.

- One day, the speaker changed their approach and started watching horror movies actively, which reduced their fear.

- The speaker relates this experience to procrastination, saying that procrastination often stems from fear of failure.

- To overcome procrastination, the first step is to acknowledge the fear behind it.

- Meditation can be helpful in clearing the mind and managing emotions.

- Create a productive environment by finding the right place to work.

- Taking breaks during work is normal and healthy to stay fresh and focused.

- It's essential to set realistic expectations for how long you can focus on a task.

- Failure is a natural part of trying and learning, so don't let it stop you from starting something new.

- Focus on the first steps of a task to avoid feeling overwhelmed.

- Celebrate your milestones to feel motivated and keep going.

- Set aside dedicated time for working on your goals.

- Don't dwell on past mistakes; focus on the present and keep trying.

- Building self-discipline takes time, and you can use countdown methods to get started.

- Surround yourself with supportive friends who encourage you to achieve your goals.

- Resilience can be developed through mindset shifts and healthy habits.

- Accept that life isn't always fair and focus on the positive things you have.

- When feeling unmotivated, take the first small step towards your task.

- View setbacks and failures as learning experiences and opportunities to pivot.

- Consistency and time are key to seeing results and achieving your goals.

- Spacing out learning and using flashcards can be more effective than cramming.

- Acknowledge when you are not fine with your current situation to create motivation for change.

- Listening to motivational content can help kickstart your motivation.

- Write down tasks and decisions to reduce decision fatigue and feel more organized.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

LIFE LESSON - 3 DAILY HABITS TO GET MORE DONE IN A DAY

 

- Habit 1: "Organize Tomorrow Today"

- Imagine a game with questions worth different amounts of money.

- You can win big by answering three high-value questions, but you don't know which ones they are.

- In real life, treat your tasks like the game. Before lunch, spend five minutes planning for tomorrow.

- Write down three important things you must do and highlight the most crucial one.

- Your brain will work on these tasks while you sleep, making you more prepared and less anxious the next day.



- Habit 2: "Say No"

- Sometimes, we have to choose between urgent and important things.

- Urgent things feel like they need immediate attention, but they might not be essential.

- You should prioritize important things, like spending time with family or finishing important work.

- Learn to say no to things that are urgent but not as important to focus on what truly matters.



- Habit 3: "Focus on One Thing at a Time"

- Trying to focus on too many things at once can lead to underperformance and lost confidence.

- Productive people focus intensely on important tasks, like intense fire without smoke.

- Avoid multitasking and concentrate on one goal at a time to achieve better results.



- Building New Habits:

- It's a continuous process; habits get stronger or weaker depending on your attention.

- Struggles are normal when building habits; recognize the struggle phase and focus on positive emotions.

- Visualize how your life will be in five years if you don't stick to your desired changes.

- Overcome discouragement by staying committed and not making too many exceptions.

- Be prepared for disruptions, but keep going and stay focused on your goals.



- Summary:

- Organize your tasks for tomorrow, focus on the three most important ones, and complete them first.

- Say no to less important things, even if they seem urgent.

- Concentrate on one task at a time and visualize your future success.

- Building habits takes time and effort, but it's worth it to achieve your goals.



Of course! Here's the revised "To-Do" list template with five places to write after each lesson and motivational words in parentheses:



```

[Step 1] Organize Tomorrow Today:

(Make Every Day Count!)



1. ________________________________________________________

2. ________________________________________________________

3. ________________________________________________________

4. ________________________________________________________

5. ________________________________________________________



[Step 2] Say No to the Right Things:

(Choose What Truly Matters!)



1. ________________________________________________________

2. ________________________________________________________

3. ________________________________________________________

4. ________________________________________________________

5. ________________________________________________________



[Step 3] Focus on One Thing at a Time:

(Concentrate on Your Goals!)



1. ________________________________________________________

2. ________________________________________________________

3. ________________________________________________________

4. ________________________________________________________

5. ________________________________________________________



[Step 4] Building New Habits:

(Grow Stronger Every Day!)



1. ________________________________________________________

2. ________________________________________________________

3. ________________________________________________________

4. ________________________________________________________

5. ________________________________________________________



[Step 5] Overcoming Discouragement:

(Rise Above Challenges!)



1. ________________________________________________________

2. ________________________________________________________

3. ________________________________________________________

4. ________________________________________________________

5. ________________________________________________________



[Step 6] Be Prepared for Disruptions:

(Stay Resilient and Adapt!)



1. ________________________________________________________

2. ________________________________________________________

3. ________________________________________________________

4. ________________________________________________________

5. ________________________________________________________

```



Feel free to use this template to organize your daily tasks and goals, and let the motivational words inspire you to take action and achieve your dreams!

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MONEY LESSON- pay day routine


 

 - Tony Bryson talks about the importance of saving money and building a routine to manage finances.
- He believes that the hardest part is saving the first $10,000, and once you achieve that, you can work towards saving even more, like a million dollars.
- Tony shares his money budget routine when he gets paid to avoid wasting money and make it grow.
- He advises having a baseline, which is the amount needed to live comfortably and work towards goals.
- The baseline includes four main expenses: shelter (apartment or mortgage), utilities (bills and important needs like health care and gym), groceries, and transportation (car expenses or public transportation).
- Tony suggests having a separate account for the baseline money to avoid spending it on unnecessary things.
- If you have money left over, he recommends saving and investing it wisely.
- The first goal is to become debt-free, paying off short-term debts like credit cards and loans.
- The second goal is to save up for emergencies, at least three to six months' worth of living expenses.
- The third long-term goal is to invest in a retirement account, like an index fund, and consider a 15-year mortgage for a more affordable home.
- Tony emphasizes not investing until you're debt-free and have an emergency fund to avoid dipping into your investments in times of need.
- He encourages viewers to follow his routine and reach the first $10,000 savings goal.

Monday, July 31, 2023

MONEY LESSON - stop budgeting

 

 

The person talking used to be very strict with money and had a tight budget, but now they have a better method.
- They learned five principles that helped them maintain their finances without risking everything.
- The first principle is to never spend more money than you make.
- They suggest limiting spending to a certain percentage of your income: average people should not spend more than 90%, better than average people 70%, and those wanting to be financially free should spend less than 50%.
- They use a system to manage their finances, relying on automatic payments and separate debit cards for different expenses to avoid overspending.
- Endurance and focus are crucial habits for financial success.
- It's essential to have clear goals and stay focused on them while also enjoying life along the way.
- The person admits they sometimes deviate from their plan but try to stay on track with their overall financial goals.





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Tuesday, July 25, 2023

6 Easy Steps for Weight Loss

 

 

 Title: 6 Easy Steps for Weight Loss

Overview:
In this video, the speaker E-man, shares six simple steps to help with weight loss. The steps involve calculating BMI, measuring body parts, tracking meals, monitoring movements, breaking habits into smaller ones, and habit stacking.

Steps for Weight Loss:

1. Calculate Your BMI:
- Use Google or online programs to find your BMI (Body Mass Index).
- Enter your age, height, weight, and goal weight to know how many calories you should eat each day.

2. Measure Yourself:
- Measure your arms, waist, chest, and thighs.
- This helps you track progress and know if you're getting smaller or bigger.

3. Track Your Meals:
- Keep a food journal or use apps like "My Fitness Pal."
- Write down what you eat for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and snacks.
- It helps you see how many calories you consume each day.

4. Monitor Your Movements:
- Get a fitness tracker like "Misfit Flash" to know how many calories you burn daily.
- This helps you understand your activity level and adjust your eating habits accordingly.

5. Break Big Habits into Small Habits:
- If you have a hard time going to the gym, start by just going there and back without working out.
- Gradually add exercises each time you go until it becomes a regular habit.

6. Habit Stacking:
- Combine a new habit you want to develop with an existing habit.
- For example, do two push-ups every morning after drinking a cup of water.

Remember, losing weight is about making small changes and being consistent over time. Stay patient and motivated as you work towards your weight loss goals!

 

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