Tuesday, March 15, 2011

LIFE LESSON- Instructions For Life


  • Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
  • Memorize your favorite poem.
  • Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
  • When you say, “I love you”, mean it.
  • When you say, “I’m sorry”, look the person in the eye.
  • Be engaged at least six months before you get married. 
  • Believe in love at first sight.
  • Never laugh at anyone’s dreams.
Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely.




  • In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
  • Don’t judge people by their relatives.
  • Talk slowly but think quickly. 
  • When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask, “Why do you want to know?”

  • Call your mom.
  • Say “bless you” when you hear someone sneeze.
  • When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
  • Remember the three R’s: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions. 
  • Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
  • When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
  • Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice. 


    • Spend some time alone.
    • Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.
    • Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
    • Read more books and watch less TV.
    •  Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll get to enjoy it a second time.
    • Trust in God but lock your car.
    • A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.
    • In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
    • Read between the lines.
    • Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality.
    • Be gentle with the earth.
    • Pray. There’s immeasurable power in it.
    • Never interrupt when you are being flattered.
    • Mind your own business.
    • Don’t trust a man/woman who doesn’t close his/her eyes when you kiss.
    • At least once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.
    • If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. That is wealth’s greatest satisfaction.
    • Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.
    • Learn the rules then break some.
    • Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.
    • Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
    • Remember that your character is your destiny.
    • Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.
    ~ Words by Dalai Lama ~ 



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    Friday, March 11, 2011

    8.9-magnitude Quake in Japan Triggers Devastating Japan Tsunami

    Our prayers go out to the Japanese people.. What a horrible, horrible tragedy.  Our hearts go out to you.









    So far, reports are of over 3,000 dead..  updated reports and more ways to help will be coming. 

    Ways you can help now:


    They have relief stations located across the country that will assist with citizen evacuation and medical needs.


    From the Red Cross:Inquiries concerning U.S. citizens living or traveling in Japan should be referred to the U.S. Department of State, Office of Overseas Citizens Services at 1-888-407-4747 or 202 647-5225.


    The Hawaii Red Cross is tweeting national announcements from Japan and instructions on how to find U.S. citizens in in the area. You can also use the hashtag #hitsunami to request help or keep others informed on how to help.

    Sunday, March 06, 2011

    Favorite LIVE Performances (first list)


    NubianNewYorkers is a Facebook Group, This Blog, A Twitter Feed and amongst other things is a 24,000 Member Strong Yahoo Group.  In our group we discuss EVERYTHING.. One question I asked the guys in the group was "WHATS YOUR FAVORITE LIVE PERFORMANCE?"

    Here are some of the results.. first, lets start with 2 performances I really loved;

    Michael Jackson "Dangerous" 1993 American Music Awards


    Madonna doing a unique performance of  "Vogue" on MTV 20 years ago..

    "MiamiBoy01" chose the following;





    "Tippindascalez2" chose the following;



    "EverywhereWorld" chose the following;



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    What is YOUR favorite LIVE performance? Post it in the comments below.. Share your Love.. or just let me know via Twitter, Facebook or at our home group NubianNewYorkers.

    And be sure to share this post with your friends, hopefully they have performances that they'd like to tell us about...  MUSIC makes Life worth Living!!

    Friday, February 25, 2011

    VAN JONES- Because Smart Is Sexy


     Anthony K. "Van" Jones (born September 20, 1968) is an American environmental advocate, civil rights activist, and attorney
    In March 2009 Jones was appointed by President Barack Obama to the newly created position of Special Advisor for Green Jobs, Enterprise and Innovation at the White House Council on Environmental Quality, where he worked with various "agencies and departments to advance the administration's climate and energy initiatives, with a special focus on improving vulnerable communities."


     In July 2009 he became "embroiled in a controversy" over his past political activities, including a public comment disparaging congressional Republicans, his name appearing on a petition for911Truth.org, and allegations of association with a Marxist group during the 1990s. Highlighting these issues, conservatives launched an aggressive campaign against him. Jones resigned from the position in early September 2009 "On the eve of historic fights for health care and clean energy, opponents of reform have mounted a vicious smear campaign against me," Jones said in his resignation statement. "They are using lies and distortions to distract and divide."
    Jones is currently a senior fellow at the Center For American Progress and a senior policy advisor at Green For All. Jones also holds a joint appointment at Princeton University, as a distinguished visiting fellow in both the Center for African American Studies and in the Program in Science, Technology and Environmental Policy at the Woodrow Wilson School of Public and International Affairs.


    WIKIPEDIA- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Van_Jones.

    BORN THIS WAY - Maria Aragon on Good Morning America

    Obama Administration On Gay Marriage

    Saturday, February 19, 2011

    "TOP SHOT" hits the target.



    TOP SHOT is a reality show/ gun competition on The History Channel






    I dont know one thing about how to make a dress or what a nice dress would be.. Yet, I find Project Runway (esp the 1st few seasons) to be an excellent, excellent show. I just love to see people who are gifted compare talents on a well edited, show. This show is Project Runway with RIFLES. Its like SURVIVOR with BULLETS. 

    Being from the big city, I dont like gun's.. Well, I mostly don't like guns used in crimes.. But guns usually make me nervous.. But The History Channels "TOP SHOT" is a show I like, and suggest.

    I like the male bravado-ishness of the show.. you know, that fake way guys have to toughen up.. As Project Runway will come with a certain amount of "camp", "Top Shot" comes with its own kind of "macho" camp. But the contestant are awesome sharpshooters and the show is
    very watchable.

    Its in its second season (I've got to go back and watch the 1st).. Here are the first 2 episodes of season 2...


    THUMBS UP