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Wednesday, August 02, 2023
LIFE LESSONS - "The Art of War" by Sun Tzu
"The Art of War" is a military treatise written by the Chinese general Sun Tzu in ancient China. It is considered one of the most influential works on military strategy and has been studied and applied not only in military contexts but also in business, sports, and politics.
The book contains 13 chapters and provides practical advice on winning battles through the use of tactics, strategy, and psychology. It emphasizes the importance of understanding and exploiting an opponent's weaknesses and adapting to changing circumstances.
- The book "The Art of War" by Sun Tzu is very old but still studied today by many people, like entrepreneurs, military leaders, politicians, and athletes.
- The book is about war, but its lessons can be applied to business and daily life because business can be like a modern-day war.
- Lesson 1: Knowing when to fight and when not to fight is crucial. Sometimes it's better to let things go rather than wasting time and energy on conflicts that won't bring much benefit.
- Lesson 2: Focus your resources on what you do best and don't try to do everything at once. Successful businesses start by mastering one thing before diversifying.
- Lesson 3: Attack weak points and avoid strong ones. Don't try to compete with experts in areas where they are much better than you; find your own niche.
- Lesson 4: Know the costs and risks of your actions, both for yourself and your business. Sometimes it's better to avoid unnecessary conflicts or expenses.
- Lesson 5: Research and understand your allies and competitors to avoid deceitful tricks and make better decisions.
- Lesson 6: Knowing both yourself and your enemy is essential for success. If you know your strengths and weaknesses and understand your competition, you have an advantage.
- Lesson 7: Use deception and lure the enemy into weak spots. This can be applied to personal life, like changing something in your diet if you're not seeing results.
- Lesson 8: Be prepared for the enemy to attack, and make your position strong and unassailable. This can be related to being ready for any unexpected changes in life or business.
- Lesson 9: Know what to avoid and what not to do. Creating a "not-to-do" list can be as important as making a to-do list.
- Lesson 10: Use limited resources creatively and come up with new solutions. Complaining won't help; find innovative ways to tackle challenges.
- Lesson 11: Plan your days, weeks, and months to stay organized and focused. Adjust your plans as circumstances change.
- Lesson 12: The best leaders can win without fighting; they can subdue the enemy's troops without direct conflict. It's about being strategic and avoiding unnecessary battles.
- Lesson 13: Compare your strengths and weaknesses with those of your opponent to find the best approach to victory. SWOT analysis can be helpful for this.
- Lesson 14: Take advantage of opportunities and strike when the enemy is weak or unprepared. Timing can be crucial in business and life decisions.
- Lesson 15: Treat your soldiers or employees with humanity but maintain discipline. Motivate them through rewards and punishments, finding the right balance.
- Lesson 16: Keep important information and plans secret to avoid risks and stay ahead of the competition.
- Lesson 17: Treat your soldiers or employees like your children, caring for their well-being while still maintaining discipline and control.
- Lesson 18: Be prepared for any situation, and be strategic in your approach. Adaptability and surprise can lead to victory.
- Lesson 19: Remember that victory depends on the general's skill and leadership, not just on winning battles. It's about long-term success and sustainability.
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Tuesday, August 01, 2023
LIFE LESSON- TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE
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The speaker used to be scared of horror movies as a child and would
hide from the screen.
- One day, the speaker changed their approach and started watching horror movies actively, which reduced their fear.
- The speaker relates this experience to procrastination, saying that procrastination often stems from fear of failure.
- To overcome procrastination, the first step is to acknowledge the fear behind it.
- Meditation can be helpful in clearing the mind and managing emotions.
- Create a productive environment by finding the right place to work.
- Taking breaks during work is normal and healthy to stay fresh and focused.
- It's essential to set realistic expectations for how long you can focus on a task.
- Failure is a natural part of trying and learning, so don't let it stop you from starting something new.
- Focus on the first steps of a task to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
- Celebrate your milestones to feel motivated and keep going.
- Set aside dedicated time for working on your goals.
- Don't dwell on past mistakes; focus on the present and keep trying.
- Building self-discipline takes time, and you can use countdown methods to get started.
- Surround yourself with supportive friends who encourage you to achieve your goals.
- Resilience can be developed through mindset shifts and healthy habits.
- Accept that life isn't always fair and focus on the positive things you have.
- When feeling unmotivated, take the first small step towards your task.
- View setbacks and failures as learning experiences and opportunities to pivot.
- Consistency and time are key to seeing results and achieving your goals.
- Spacing out learning and using flashcards can be more effective than cramming.
- Acknowledge when you are not fine with your current situation to create motivation for change.
- Listening to motivational content can help kickstart your motivation.
- Write down tasks and decisions to reduce decision fatigue and feel more organized.
LIFE LESSON - 3 DAILY HABITS TO GET MORE DONE IN A DAY
- Habit 1: "Organize Tomorrow Today"
- Imagine a game with questions worth different amounts of money.
- You can win big by answering three high-value questions, but you don't know which ones they are.
- In real life, treat your tasks like the game. Before lunch, spend five minutes planning for tomorrow.
- Write down three important things you must do and highlight the most crucial one.
- Your brain will work on these tasks while you sleep, making you more prepared and less anxious the next day.
- Habit 2: "Say No"
- Sometimes, we have to choose between urgent and important things.
- Urgent things feel like they need immediate attention, but they might not be essential.
- You should prioritize important things, like spending time with family or finishing important work.
- Learn to say no to things that are urgent but not as important to focus on what truly matters.
- Habit 3: "Focus on One Thing at a Time"
- Trying to focus on too many things at once can lead to underperformance and lost confidence.
- Productive people focus intensely on important tasks, like intense fire without smoke.
- Avoid multitasking and concentrate on one goal at a time to achieve better results.
- Building New Habits:
- It's a continuous process; habits get stronger or weaker depending on your attention.
- Struggles are normal when building habits; recognize the struggle phase and focus on positive emotions.
- Visualize how your life will be in five years if you don't stick to your desired changes.
- Overcome discouragement by staying committed and not making too many exceptions.
- Be prepared for disruptions, but keep going and stay focused on your goals.
- Summary:
- Organize your tasks for tomorrow, focus on the three most important ones, and complete them first.
- Say no to less important things, even if they seem urgent.
- Concentrate on one task at a time and visualize your future success.
- Building habits takes time and effort, but it's worth it to achieve your goals.
Of course! Here's the revised "To-Do" list template with five places to write after each lesson and motivational words in parentheses:
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[Step 1] Organize Tomorrow Today:
(Make Every Day Count!)
1. ________________________________________________________
2. ________________________________________________________
3. ________________________________________________________
4. ________________________________________________________
5. ________________________________________________________
[Step 2] Say No to the Right Things:
(Choose What Truly Matters!)
1. ________________________________________________________
2. ________________________________________________________
3. ________________________________________________________
4. ________________________________________________________
5. ________________________________________________________
[Step 3] Focus on One Thing at a Time:
(Concentrate on Your Goals!)
1. ________________________________________________________
2. ________________________________________________________
3. ________________________________________________________
4. ________________________________________________________
5. ________________________________________________________
[Step 4] Building New Habits:
(Grow Stronger Every Day!)
1. ________________________________________________________
2. ________________________________________________________
3. ________________________________________________________
4. ________________________________________________________
5. ________________________________________________________
[Step 5] Overcoming Discouragement:
(Rise Above Challenges!)
1. ________________________________________________________
2. ________________________________________________________
3. ________________________________________________________
4. ________________________________________________________
5. ________________________________________________________
[Step 6] Be Prepared for Disruptions:
(Stay Resilient and Adapt!)
1. ________________________________________________________
2. ________________________________________________________
3. ________________________________________________________
4. ________________________________________________________
5. ________________________________________________________
```
Feel free to use this template to organize your daily tasks and goals, and let the motivational words inspire you to take action and achieve your dreams!
Try Audible Premium Plus and Get Up to Two Free AudiobooksMONEY LESSON- pay day routine
- Tony Bryson talks about the importance of saving money and building a routine to manage finances.
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He believes that the hardest part is saving the first $10,000, and once
you achieve that, you can work towards saving even more, like a million
dollars.
- Tony shares his money budget routine when he gets paid to avoid wasting money and make it grow.
- He advises having a baseline, which is the amount needed to live comfortably and work towards goals.
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The baseline includes four main expenses: shelter (apartment or
mortgage), utilities (bills and important needs like health care and
gym), groceries, and transportation (car expenses or public
transportation).
- Tony suggests having a separate account for the baseline money to avoid spending it on unnecessary things.
- If you have money left over, he recommends saving and investing it wisely.
- The first goal is to become debt-free, paying off short-term debts like credit cards and loans.
- The second goal is to save up for emergencies, at least three to six months' worth of living expenses.
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The third long-term goal is to invest in a retirement account, like an
index fund, and consider a 15-year mortgage for a more affordable home.
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Tony emphasizes not investing until you're debt-free and have an
emergency fund to avoid dipping into your investments in times of need.
- He encourages viewers to follow his routine and reach the first $10,000 savings goal.
Monday, July 31, 2023
MONEY LESSON - stop budgeting
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The person talking used to be very strict with money and had a tight budget, but now they have a better method.
- They learned five principles that helped them maintain their finances without risking everything.
- The first principle is to never spend more money than you make.
- They suggest limiting spending to a certain percentage of your income: average people should not spend more than 90%, better than average people 70%, and those wanting to be financially free should spend less than 50%.
- They use a system to manage their finances, relying on automatic payments and separate debit cards for different expenses to avoid overspending.
- Endurance and focus are crucial habits for financial success.
- It's essential to have clear goals and stay focused on them while also enjoying life along the way.
- The person admits they sometimes deviate from their plan but try to stay on track with their overall financial goals.
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