Tuesday, August 01, 2023

LIFE LESSON- TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE

 


- The speaker used to be scared of horror movies as a child and would hide from the screen.

- One day, the speaker changed their approach and started watching horror movies actively, which reduced their fear.

- The speaker relates this experience to procrastination, saying that procrastination often stems from fear of failure.

- To overcome procrastination, the first step is to acknowledge the fear behind it.

- Meditation can be helpful in clearing the mind and managing emotions.

- Create a productive environment by finding the right place to work.

- Taking breaks during work is normal and healthy to stay fresh and focused.

- It's essential to set realistic expectations for how long you can focus on a task.

- Failure is a natural part of trying and learning, so don't let it stop you from starting something new.

- Focus on the first steps of a task to avoid feeling overwhelmed.

- Celebrate your milestones to feel motivated and keep going.

- Set aside dedicated time for working on your goals.

- Don't dwell on past mistakes; focus on the present and keep trying.

- Building self-discipline takes time, and you can use countdown methods to get started.

- Surround yourself with supportive friends who encourage you to achieve your goals.

- Resilience can be developed through mindset shifts and healthy habits.

- Accept that life isn't always fair and focus on the positive things you have.

- When feeling unmotivated, take the first small step towards your task.

- View setbacks and failures as learning experiences and opportunities to pivot.

- Consistency and time are key to seeing results and achieving your goals.

- Spacing out learning and using flashcards can be more effective than cramming.

- Acknowledge when you are not fine with your current situation to create motivation for change.

- Listening to motivational content can help kickstart your motivation.

- Write down tasks and decisions to reduce decision fatigue and feel more organized.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

LIFE LESSON - 3 DAILY HABITS TO GET MORE DONE IN A DAY

 

- Habit 1: "Organize Tomorrow Today"

- Imagine a game with questions worth different amounts of money.

- You can win big by answering three high-value questions, but you don't know which ones they are.

- In real life, treat your tasks like the game. Before lunch, spend five minutes planning for tomorrow.

- Write down three important things you must do and highlight the most crucial one.

- Your brain will work on these tasks while you sleep, making you more prepared and less anxious the next day.



- Habit 2: "Say No"

- Sometimes, we have to choose between urgent and important things.

- Urgent things feel like they need immediate attention, but they might not be essential.

- You should prioritize important things, like spending time with family or finishing important work.

- Learn to say no to things that are urgent but not as important to focus on what truly matters.



- Habit 3: "Focus on One Thing at a Time"

- Trying to focus on too many things at once can lead to underperformance and lost confidence.

- Productive people focus intensely on important tasks, like intense fire without smoke.

- Avoid multitasking and concentrate on one goal at a time to achieve better results.



- Building New Habits:

- It's a continuous process; habits get stronger or weaker depending on your attention.

- Struggles are normal when building habits; recognize the struggle phase and focus on positive emotions.

- Visualize how your life will be in five years if you don't stick to your desired changes.

- Overcome discouragement by staying committed and not making too many exceptions.

- Be prepared for disruptions, but keep going and stay focused on your goals.



- Summary:

- Organize your tasks for tomorrow, focus on the three most important ones, and complete them first.

- Say no to less important things, even if they seem urgent.

- Concentrate on one task at a time and visualize your future success.

- Building habits takes time and effort, but it's worth it to achieve your goals.



Of course! Here's the revised "To-Do" list template with five places to write after each lesson and motivational words in parentheses:



```

[Step 1] Organize Tomorrow Today:

(Make Every Day Count!)



1. ________________________________________________________

2. ________________________________________________________

3. ________________________________________________________

4. ________________________________________________________

5. ________________________________________________________



[Step 2] Say No to the Right Things:

(Choose What Truly Matters!)



1. ________________________________________________________

2. ________________________________________________________

3. ________________________________________________________

4. ________________________________________________________

5. ________________________________________________________



[Step 3] Focus on One Thing at a Time:

(Concentrate on Your Goals!)



1. ________________________________________________________

2. ________________________________________________________

3. ________________________________________________________

4. ________________________________________________________

5. ________________________________________________________



[Step 4] Building New Habits:

(Grow Stronger Every Day!)



1. ________________________________________________________

2. ________________________________________________________

3. ________________________________________________________

4. ________________________________________________________

5. ________________________________________________________



[Step 5] Overcoming Discouragement:

(Rise Above Challenges!)



1. ________________________________________________________

2. ________________________________________________________

3. ________________________________________________________

4. ________________________________________________________

5. ________________________________________________________



[Step 6] Be Prepared for Disruptions:

(Stay Resilient and Adapt!)



1. ________________________________________________________

2. ________________________________________________________

3. ________________________________________________________

4. ________________________________________________________

5. ________________________________________________________

```



Feel free to use this template to organize your daily tasks and goals, and let the motivational words inspire you to take action and achieve your dreams!

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MONEY LESSON- pay day routine


 

 - Tony Bryson talks about the importance of saving money and building a routine to manage finances.
- He believes that the hardest part is saving the first $10,000, and once you achieve that, you can work towards saving even more, like a million dollars.
- Tony shares his money budget routine when he gets paid to avoid wasting money and make it grow.
- He advises having a baseline, which is the amount needed to live comfortably and work towards goals.
- The baseline includes four main expenses: shelter (apartment or mortgage), utilities (bills and important needs like health care and gym), groceries, and transportation (car expenses or public transportation).
- Tony suggests having a separate account for the baseline money to avoid spending it on unnecessary things.
- If you have money left over, he recommends saving and investing it wisely.
- The first goal is to become debt-free, paying off short-term debts like credit cards and loans.
- The second goal is to save up for emergencies, at least three to six months' worth of living expenses.
- The third long-term goal is to invest in a retirement account, like an index fund, and consider a 15-year mortgage for a more affordable home.
- Tony emphasizes not investing until you're debt-free and have an emergency fund to avoid dipping into your investments in times of need.
- He encourages viewers to follow his routine and reach the first $10,000 savings goal.

Monday, July 31, 2023

MONEY LESSON - stop budgeting

 

 

The person talking used to be very strict with money and had a tight budget, but now they have a better method.
- They learned five principles that helped them maintain their finances without risking everything.
- The first principle is to never spend more money than you make.
- They suggest limiting spending to a certain percentage of your income: average people should not spend more than 90%, better than average people 70%, and those wanting to be financially free should spend less than 50%.
- They use a system to manage their finances, relying on automatic payments and separate debit cards for different expenses to avoid overspending.
- Endurance and focus are crucial habits for financial success.
- It's essential to have clear goals and stay focused on them while also enjoying life along the way.
- The person admits they sometimes deviate from their plan but try to stay on track with their overall financial goals.





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Tuesday, July 25, 2023

6 Easy Steps for Weight Loss

 

 

 Title: 6 Easy Steps for Weight Loss

Overview:
In this video, the speaker E-man, shares six simple steps to help with weight loss. The steps involve calculating BMI, measuring body parts, tracking meals, monitoring movements, breaking habits into smaller ones, and habit stacking.

Steps for Weight Loss:

1. Calculate Your BMI:
- Use Google or online programs to find your BMI (Body Mass Index).
- Enter your age, height, weight, and goal weight to know how many calories you should eat each day.

2. Measure Yourself:
- Measure your arms, waist, chest, and thighs.
- This helps you track progress and know if you're getting smaller or bigger.

3. Track Your Meals:
- Keep a food journal or use apps like "My Fitness Pal."
- Write down what you eat for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and snacks.
- It helps you see how many calories you consume each day.

4. Monitor Your Movements:
- Get a fitness tracker like "Misfit Flash" to know how many calories you burn daily.
- This helps you understand your activity level and adjust your eating habits accordingly.

5. Break Big Habits into Small Habits:
- If you have a hard time going to the gym, start by just going there and back without working out.
- Gradually add exercises each time you go until it becomes a regular habit.

6. Habit Stacking:
- Combine a new habit you want to develop with an existing habit.
- For example, do two push-ups every morning after drinking a cup of water.

Remember, losing weight is about making small changes and being consistent over time. Stay patient and motivated as you work towards your weight loss goals!

 

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The history of the world if it never occurred to humans to discriminate over race or religion..

 


The history of the world if it never occurred to humans to discriminate over race or religion..

We would be exactly the same except there would be a country of skinny people right next to and at war with a country of fat people.

In America, short cops would be killing unarmed tall people. The jails would be majority tall people but every jury would be  majority short people. (& police, government)

In the middle east, people who believe the toilet paper roll should roll OVER would be constantly fighting with the country right next to them who roll the toilet paper UNDER because they believe they took their land.

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Sunday, July 16, 2023

#MovieTime - "My Brother The Devil"


 

 "My Brother The Devil" - "My Brother the Devil" features a powerful and emotional portrayal of a gay relationship between two of the main characters. 

The film explores the complexities and challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals in conservative communities, and the impact that societal prejudice can have on personal relationships. 

With a raw and authentic representation of gay love and desire, "My Brother the Devil" is a moving and thought-provoking film that tackles important issues of sexuality, identity, and social acceptance

#MovieTime- "Rag Tag"


 

"Rag Tag" is a 2006 drama film directed by Adaora Nwandu that tells the story of two young boys who struggle to survive on the streets of Nigeria after being orphaned by ethnic conflict. 

The film is a heart-wrenching portrayal of the harsh realities faced by street children in Nigeria and the incredible strength and resilience they exhibit in the face of adversity. 

With its powerful performances and raw, emotional storytelling, "Rag Tag" is a gripping and thought-provoking film that will leave a lasting impression on its viewers.

#MovieTime - Young Soul Rebels (1991)


Young Soul Rebels (1991)
Set in London in 1977, Young Soul Rebels focuses on a pirate radio station run by the Black, openly gay Caz and his half-white, half-Black, straight best friend Chris, who illegally bring soul and R&B hits to the masses. 

Set during the Queen’s Silver Jubilee and inspired by luminary queer director Isaac Julien’s days as a soul boy himself, the genre-blurring movie is part murder mystery, part queer romance, and part musical love letter to a period in British history when Black style was developing its own unmistakable identity. 

In a sharp, giallo-style opening, Caz’s friend is killed while cruising a local park, kicking off a plot that introduces probing questions that disrupt the duo’s lives and persist today: Can you rely on police accountability when queer people are murdered? How do marginalized communities acknowledge and protect their own who inhabit multiple vulnerable identities at once? 

Julien gracefully handles these and other issues, adding further depth through Caz’s romance with white punk socialist Billibud, which underscores racist and homophobic tendencies in the era’s punk scene. 

A countercultural gut punch with gorgeous visual style and an unimpeachable soundtrack spanning the O’Jays and the Blackbyrds to Sylvester and X-Ray Spex, Young Soul Rebels is as electrifyingly relevant now as it was in 1991

#Bookworm - Passion Marks by Lee Hayes


 Passion Marks by Lee Hayes

On the outside, Kevin Davis's life leaves nothing to be desired. Living in a world of luxury, comfort, and money, it seems he has everything he could ever want and need. But on the inside, Kevin hides the verbal, physical, and sexual abuse he endures at the hands of his perfect man— James Lancaster, the ambitious CEO of a rising Houston software firm. Entangled in a dark web of love, violence, depravity, and torment at the hands of his lover, the only way Kevin can free himself is to overcome his personal demons. In a psychological battle of wills, who will be the ultimate victor?

#Bookworm - The Sweetness of Water by Nathan Harris


The Sweetness of Water by Nathan Harris -
 
"The Sweetness of Water" by Nathan Harris explores the aftermath of the Civil War in a small Georgia town, delving into themes of love, family, race, and sexuality. 

The novel follows two brothers, Prentiss and Landry, who were recently freed from slavery and their paths intersect with a white family who must also come to terms with their own prejudices. 

Additionally, the story features a gay subplot involving a romantic relationship between two male characters. Through lush storytelling, Harris paints a vivid picture of post-war Southern life and the complexities of human relationships.